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Rewarding birth
Hey Nikki, I wanted to send a quick note to thank you for everything I learned in your yoga classes over the past 9 months. And whatever we did last Sunday seems to have worked! I started feeling contractions later that day and L was born a week early on Monday. The exercises and breathing we did gave me the tools I needed to labor naturally and keep me calm — to the extent that I was further along than the midwife and doula both thought I was, arriving at the hospital fully dilated. The whole experience was long and hard, but a positive one and completely rewarding. We’re taking it easy at home, but hope to see you around the neighborhood soon!-H.B.
Prenatal Yoga Sundays 1-2pm @ Golden Heart Yoga DC
Gemstones for the Childbearing Year
Gemstones are both beautiful and beneficial during the childbearing year. They provide adornment and support to periods of conception, gestation, birth, postpartum, breastfeeding and infancy. Gemstones appeal to our tactile and esoteric senses. We admire their brilliance, absorb their energies, and feel their vibrations. Using gemstones is easy:
*they can be worn as jewelry *placed in your pocket or purse *kept in your pillow
*placed under the mattress
*held on your alter
*hung from your rear view window
*steeped in water for bath or drinks
*held or focal point during prayer or meditiation
*placed on chakra or reflexology points for balancing
Let your intutition guide you when selecting gemstones and choose ones which resonate with you. Below are some suggestions gathered from the following site http://www.crystalhealingcenter.com
Amber
Golden Brown
Solar Plexus Chakra
· Assists with mental clarity, promotes smooth functioning of intellect and wisdom and helps eliminate confusion in regards to truth.
· Protects one from psychic attacks, negative energy or taking on other’s energy. Facilitates energy balancing and cleansing.
· Offers patience, romantic love, sensuality, purification, detoxification, healing and calmness.
Carnelian
Orange & Red
Root and Sacral Chakra
· Heals, balances and stimulates women’s reproductive system and helps alleviate premenstrual cramps and irregular menses.
· Assists with stimulating physical energy, passion, emotions, sexuality and removes sorrows, jealousy, anger and fear.
· Stabilizes and grounds energy, improves motivation and recall to historical events and past lives.
Chrysoprase
Green (color of apples)
Heart Chakra
· Excellent healing stone that helps guard against sexually transmitted diseases, eye problems, gout, mental illness, fertility issues for both sexes and relieves fever.
· Eases heartache and loneliness, balances emotions, provides inner peace and strength, conflict resolution and provides happiness.
· Stimulates creativity, good fortune and prosperity.
Moonstone
Translucent and rainbow
Heart Chakra
· Enhances feminine energies including intuition, sensitivity, receptivity, and psychic abilities.
· Provides protection particularly during childbirth, pregnancy and travel at sea.
· Used to aid pituitary gland, digestive system, obesity, water retention, lymph system, menstrual problems and hormonal problems, emotional balance and grace.
· Helpful for water signs and calming overreactions to personal and emotional situations.
Pearl
White, Pink, Cream & Black
Crown Chakra
·Feminine in nature (containing water and moon energies) connecting the wearer to the Goddess energy and aiding in childbirth and fertility.
·Enhance personal integrity, faith, loyalty, truth, purity, charity, calming and centering.
·Used to treat stress, hypertension, headaches, exhaustion, digestive tract and muscular systems.
Quartz, Rose
Pink
Heart Chakra
·Opens the heart chakra for emotional healing and is used to enhance all forms of love including unconditional love, self-love, family love, platonic love and romantic love.
·Assist with fertility and provides protection during pregnancy and childbirth.
·Eases traumas associated with loss, stress, hurt, fear, low self-esteem, and lack of confidence, anger, and resentment.
Chrysocolla
Blue/Green
Heart or Throat Chakra
· Supports harmony, letting go, surrendering of pain, worry, anxiety, fear and guilt.
· Treats and heals lungs, throat, heart, premenstrual syndrome, cramps, inflammations, arthritis and spasms.
· Gently removes negativity and aids emotional healing from incest, rape, mastectomy and hysterectomy.
Agate (Crazy Lace)
Black & white
· Helps to clear emotional pain, center and focus.
· Helps children, parents and grandparents understand one another. Also encourages different generations to feel they can enjoy one another.
Jade
Various Colors- Jadeite & Nephrite
· All jade has different healing aspects including crystal healing, removing toxins from body, healing the heart and assisting kidney problems.
· Provides protection from harm, against illness especially for children and against physical attack.
· Ancient Chinese have used jade for various things including peace, harmony, emotional balance, stamina, humility, fidelity, generosity, mercy, courage, wisdom and justice.
I was recently published. My editorial “Daily Yoga for Pregnancy” is featured in the Washington DC 2012 Expectant Mothers Guide. Free copies available in print throughout DC, Maryland and Virginia @ your healthcare providers, birth centers, maternity and baby stores.
What is prenatal yoga?
A prenatal yoga student mentioned after class” I’m in my 1st trimester and need a more vigorous practice.
My reply: Why fight your true nature, what is more vigorous than life forming inside you at an exponential rate?
Her reply was ” I don’t want to get out if shape”
My response: You have to get out of shape, to get in Motherhood shape, allow your DNA to become unhinged and hang out in innerspace to survive this journey. Around 7 months into her pregnancy she returned to class.
She said ” I had no clue what you were talking about in our 1st class, now I want to thank you for this please don’t stop.”
Nothing more needed to be said this yogini had made her transformation. She walked the path and submitted to her purpose. She embraced the truth of her purpose and not only accepted the changes in her life but found joy in the beauty of her new form. Her inital concerns about her body image as less than perfect were replaced by a divine perfection and awe. She began to worship her fullness and delighted in her family, friends and community response to her blossoming belly. Now the real practice of yoga began. This yogini had been attending hatha yoga classes for many years. She was limber and strong but her practice was compartmentalized. The practice of yoga began and ended on her mat. Then life flourished inside and she had to assume the responsibility of carrying 2 souls in 1 body. Before she knew it the yamas and niyamas jumped into the forefront of her consciousness. It all began to make sense and the practical application of pranayama and asana and deep relaxation and meditation and proper diet and positive thinking became diurnal and circadian. Yoga was effortless no longer something she did but something she lived. Pregnancy affords women a prosperous opportunity to grow, heal and change with the unyielding support of the universe; if we are willing to release fear, trust our bodies, our intuition, ourselves.
Prenatal Yoga
Sundays 1-2pm@Golden Heart Yoga DC 4804Georgia Ave Nw, DC
Prenatal Yoga Classes
Time: Saturdays 2-3pm
Place: Yoga District 526 H St NE, DC www.yogadistrict.com
Time: Sundays 1-2pm
Place: Golden Heart Yoga 4804 Georgia Ave Nw, DC www.goldenheartyoga.com
Prenatal Yoga Testimonial
Dear Nikki,
I just wanted to check in and thank you again for the wonderful experience I had doing prenatal yoga with you. While my birth experience was more difficult than most, I am confident that I am having a better recovery and had a better pregnancy throughout as a result of being in your class and getting regular exercise that also had a mind-body-wellness component.
I had a very tough delivery — it was induced a week earlier than expected due to a pinprick leak in the amniotic fluid and this lead to a long, long labor, then ultimately a c-section. Since it was induced, I opted for an epidural, then tried to gut it out through the night to push my baby out and ultimately had to go to a c-section once it became clear that labor wasn’t going to progress fast enough to keep the baby’s heart rate where we all wanted it.
Because I had had an epidural for such a long time, it ended up failing in spots and I could feel a good bit of the c-section — so the bumblebee breath and the focusing exercises we did were really key in helping me get through the hardest parts of that not at all gentle experience. I was able to keep my head about me and still be totally elated to see our son who arrived healthy and whole and joyful despite the pain involved.
I am now 4 weeks and some days postpartum and I am doing much better than the typical c-section patient — I am also confident that I will continue yoga once cleared to work out and also that I will do yoga in the swimming pool which was an important way that I carried the experience and things you taught with me throughout the end of the pregnancy. As a result, my baby had really good muscle tone at birth because he was able to move around due to the space that swimming gave him (weightless and inflated womb is a good thing in baby fitness terms).
I know that it is your druthers and that of most of your students to have a natural childbirth experience or at least a vaginal delivery with minimal medical intervention — however, even in a case like mine where it gets tough and you have to go to some warrior place inside to gut it out, everything you taught is relevant and ultimately a real survival skill. If you ever need a recommendation from a former student, please feel free to call on me.
Best,
S…. A….
ACOG Pregnancy Exercise Guidelines
Ready to begin your exercise program but concerned about what you should avoid during pregnancy or post partum?
The American Academy of Obstetricians and Gynecologists 2003 definitive lists of do’s and dont’s are posted below.
Familiarize yourself with the warning signs and walk , squat, practice yoga for at least 30 minutes daily.
http://www.acog.org/publications/patient_education/bp119.cfm
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When was my last period? EDD & Postdates
While sitting in the Midwife’s office after receiving the official pregnancy test result here comes the? When was your last period? What, I don’t know. With my head bowed I reply” I’ll have to ask Arthur.” I have not marked the date of my period or counted 28 days since high school. I’m one that feels when it’s near. If my diet is not in check I get argumentative, crave sugar & salt and have a desire to go to the beach. If nourishment is stellar the shifts are more subtle and I still want to go to the beach.
Next comes the sonograms. We don’t want to know the sex, please. As I pretend not to see the penis on the monitor the technician takes all the necessary measurements. Your expected due date is April 22. Wow! that is 3 weeks earlier than our calculations. Once again here comes the question, When was your last period? Honestly I can not answer with confidence but we think it was_. “We” she replies with a smile.
April 22 no action…we didn’t expect any…trusting our prediction over modern technology. The Midwife measures my belly-” the length is consistent with the EDD of 4/22″. My belly is huge and high and being my 2nd pregnancy I know this boy is not about to have his birthday this week.
April 30th Emergency …after planning a homebirth my Midwife has to leave the island & tend to family. Will you wait? Please don’t leave me I’m past my EDD! ” Yes I’ll wait till Sunday, you are about 1.5cm dialted baby is still high” Art, the midwife is leaving can we have sex, I’m drinking castor oil right now….. He brings me back to our birthing plan. No unnecessary interventions; we waited patiently for 9 months why change our philosophy because of an external crisis. The castor oil gave me the runs and I was not in the mood for any sexual communication.
May 6th Birthday..Royal Aren Marshall was born vaginally, 8 lbs 12.5 oz in the hospital by a wonderful midwife, my referral. She made every accommodation no matter how far-fetched it seemed to her co-workers. I asked how does the placenta look is he post term? “No, you have a very healthy placenta I can see you exercised during pregnancy and there are no calcifications he is 40 weeks” replied the Midwife.
Well according to the EDD I was 42 weeks post term. Had we received more allopathic care.. we may have been induced possibly resulting in C-section. The EDD is not an exact science the growth of my son and measurements were not typical. Of course, my baby was in utero & still is taller and larger than average. His father’s 6′ and 220 pounds and I am 5’9… So don’t stress over the EDD it is just an estimate and actions taken based on this estimate when there is no fetal distress or maternal health issues results in a cascade of medical interventions. In Senegal, Midwives record a due month not a due date. So prepare for labor 2 weeks before and 2 weeks after the Expected Due Date.
Evidence based research
Large studies have shown that monitoring pregnancy while waiting for spontaneous labor results in fewer cesareans without any rise in the stillbirth rate. One retrospective study of almost 1,800 post-term (past 42 weeks) pregnancies with reliable dates compared this group with a matched group delivering “on time” (between 37 and 41 weeks). The perinatal mortality was similar in both groups (0.56 /1,000 in the post-term and 0.75/1,000 in the on-time group). The rates of meconium, shoulder dystocia and cesarean were almost identical. The rates of fetal distress, instrumental delivery and low Apgar were actually lower in the postdate group than in the on-time group.(3) This is only one of several studies showing postdate pregnancies can be monitored safely until delivery or until indications arise for induction. Even the famous Canadian Multicenter Post-term Pregnancy Trial Group (Hannah) of 1,700 postdates women showed no difference in perinatal outcome among women who were monitored past their due date, as compared with those who were induced at term.(4)http://www.midwiferytoday.com/enews/enews1220.asp
Under Post Date Pressure?
Labor commences when the baby communicates with your brian via chemical message. If allowed the baby initiates action with the release of hormones received by mother’s pituitary gland. If you and baby are showing no symptoms of distress or Postmaturity Syndrome try these techniques:
- Walk & Squat …Squat & Walk … You’ve been doing it for months…Right?
- Talk to your baby reassuring that life is great outside, share all the wonderful things in store
- Keep stress @ bay…spend time alone doing happy things that make you feel confident & secure
- Stop looking @ the calendar: prepare house for baby, cook, decorate, rearrange, discard clutter
- Start maternity leave allowing time to transition into labor
- Make love & orgasm: semen has natural prostaglandins to soften the cervix; orgasm contracts the uterus, releases oxytocin and feels good taking you back to doing happy things
- Nipple Stimulation: self or partner administered, breast pump. Use of a breast pump is often done in the hospital while connected to external monitors
- Acupressure point spleen 6
- Herbal interventions: Castor oil, Aloe, Black & Blue cohosh, Primrose oil..Homeopathics. These are interventions and should be practiced under supervision of a health care provider
- acupuncture: inform care provider of intentions & appointment schedule
- Dance & Laugh…laugh & Dance… Belly dance, movements that gyrate the hips, hip circles, Soca wind
- Prenatal Massage https://birthingbliss.wordpress.com/services/
- Proper hydration and nutrition. Muscles need water & fuel for proper function, to fight fatigue & recover
- Do nothing continue life as usual, giving no power to worry
The last few weeks of pregnancy are a true test of patience. One of the greatest lessons of parenthood is surrender of control. Children will push limits often exceeding our expectations to our delight and chagrin. Confronting anxiety with patience & grace will prepare us for the paternal road ahead.
Belly Bound: Postpartum & Prenatal Care
You’ve celebrated the ultimate right of passage ..initiation into the rewarding sisterhood of Mammas. Giving birth is a marathon event. 9 months of miraculous growth is released with rushes of pain, expansion & euphoria. The tumultuous course is rewarded when you pass the placenta and hold the perfect reward…your baby. Look at where organs move & what we gain in 9 months of a healthy pregnancy. Our bodies transition from figure A to figure Mommy.
- Baby 7 .5 lbs
- Fat 7 lbs
- Water 4 lbs
- Blood 3 lbs
- Breast 2 lbs
- Womb 2 lbs
- Amniotic fluid 2 lbs
- Placenta 1.5 lbs
As women our bodies are designed to withstand the extreme rigors of childbirth but we must take care and allow ourselves the same amount of time for recuperation. There are many things we can do to support our bodies in postpartum healing. One tried and true practice familiar to many women in the Caribbean, Africa, South America and Asia is binding the belly. Women wrap their abdomen immediately after giving birth. Customarily the mother’s abdomen is bound by her mother, sister or doula with a cotton cloth, lappa or rebozo. This wrap provides support not only to her belly but internal organs, back and hips as well. It is said that women who bind their belly do not have a permanent pouch or sagging skin and they lose weight in the midsection more quickly.
If you experienced severe abdominal separation, diastisis recti or pelvic issues you’ll probably be bound in a hospital grade abdominal support for exercises and physical therapy. I bound myself postpartum after both pregnancies. I used headwraps or a lapa folded in half. The width will vary, it should cover inches below the breast to hips. The length will also vary you should be able to wrap it around your abdomen at least once and 3/4 times. Place one end of the fabric against your side, hold taught, wrap it around and tie, pin or tuck the ends. I tucked and would adjust my bind…tighter when I got down to clean the tub. I used a variety of beautiful African fabrics and batik sometimes outside my clothes Kimono style.
Prenatal Belly Bound– In West Africa women also bind their bellies during their pregnancy. A beautiful cloth wrapped around her blossoming belly is worn on the outside of her clothes. This offers protection for the baby from many things especially the evil eye. It also celebrates the pregnant female form. In Senegal pregnant women bind their bellies with hand-woven fabrics trimmed in gold, silver thread, embroidered with sequence and needlepoint. Postpartum this cloth is used for baby wearing. Baby is tied onto Mama’s back and the beautiful fabric is wrapped around both baby and mama.
Prenatal Binding is also effective if you have severe lower back pain. The belly bra does the same thing…achieve this at a fraction of the cost by simply using a lapa, long shall or wrap skirt. Wrap your abdomen bringing a gentle lift to the belly. This takes some pressure of the abdominal ligaments that tie into the lower back. Also pregnant women with young children can benefit from the additional support for the rigors of bending, reaching, lifting & playing. The additional support may also prevent diastisis recti. While pregnant with Noble, I taught yoga 6-8 times weekly up to 37 weeks. I started binding my belly around 6 months when I felt the need for support. My binds were simple a long, wide cotton scarf wrapped around the belly button level. Some days I would sling it much lower on my hip giving a nice lift similar to rebozo technique.
Therapy bound..when you need a lift especially when the baby blues hit try an herbal body wrap technique. Call a friend to help and hold the baby while your relax with your abdomen wrapped in herbs, clay or essential oils. There are several on the market but I keep it simple using ingredients on hand. I prepare a comfrey leaf infusion and mix with bentonite clay into a thin paste…spread all over abs and back then wrap up tight in a thin white cotton cloth. Relax on back for 45 minutes.While wrapped I meditate on my navel center practicing deep diaphragmatic breathing with kegels. I focus on the strength and beauty of my womb not only as a vessel for life but all of my creative energies(read Sacral Chakra Blog). Unwrap, rinse and rub in aloe, olive oil or shea butter with drops of lavender essential oil.
How tight? You should feel supported but there should be no difficulty breathing or bruising. Do not cut off circulation. You should not have to adjust the bind when you transition from sitting to standing.
Bound for How Long? About 4 -6 weeks postpartum. Also binding for exercise or increased physical activity supports the core. Binding does not supplement strengthen the abdominal muscles. Use the bind as a reminder to engage the core muscles and proper posture. Many women bind for longer/shorter periods…listen to your body
Contraindication: Cesarean Section. If you have had a C- section discuss binding with your healthcare provider or wait until the incision is healed. The pressure of binding can benefit the healing of the incision.